Monday, November 2, 2020
Big Bazaar
Wednesday, October 28, 2020
Spread Love
During
school days it is normal to tease and bully our friends or classmates. Some of
us will take it lightly, but for some it might affect them emotionally and
mentally. The scars of these bullying will be itched permanently in the hearts
of these kids and most of them do not speak with their parents about
this.
Let
me tell you my story, a story of a boy who was subject of teasing by his
classmates throughout his school days.
I
am the only child of my parents and since my family is economically stable, I
had the privilege to be alumni from the top schools of my town. I was obese
(still I am) from my KG class to 12th Standard, and I am dark skinned,
so I was a victim of heavy bullying all my school days. I was called 'Aana'
(elephant in malayalam) and 'thadiya (fatty in malayalam) and because of this
continuous bullying I did not had any self-confidence to venture into any arts
or sports events that happened in my school. I was afraid of what others would
think of me, because of this even I was conscious while walking from the school
main gate to my class room, as I always felt like I am being watched. Apart
from all these I was not extra-ordinary in my studies. I was that middle bench student;
I had no confidence to reach the front bench nor had the guts to be in the last
bench.
Adding to all the above events, while I was in the higher secondary, I was also bullied for my way of talking. Sometimes, I used to feel my friends forgot that every human will have some issues, and my issue might be with communication. During my two years in higher secondary, I lived consciously about me speaking a word fearing bullying. I would be unfair to mention I did have good friends who stood by me all time, who was not distracted by my flaws. I was moved to a co-ed school from an all-boys school , being a victim for all bullying the interaction with girls in my class was very bad. Thus, my self-confidence got beaten like chicken for barbecue.
Like for everyone I had a turnaround in my life to nurture, to bloom and
to grow like a human being like I always wanted, to be a person brimming with
confidence. After my school days I was moved to this beautiful city of
Trivandrum, where I changed completely to a new man. I had the good fortune to
be surrounded by people who motivated, supported, loved and cared me. I changed
completely from an introvert to an extrovert. My friends gave me confidence to
speak in stage, speak with a stranger and to handle people. I even start
my own business and ironically, I am the same person who was bullied for my
communication skills, making and handling clients including MNC’s. And to add I even did radio shows, and be part of large influencers group.
What I learned from my friends in Trivandrum is that a person should not
be valued by his looks, or the way he talks, but with his quality. I urge
my fellow humans and all parents to teach their kids, to spread love and
support people without being prejudicial on the looks or way of speaking. Be
the catalyst of change for a person’s life.
#stopsbullying
#spreadlove
Saturday, October 24, 2020
Five Years of Making History
Friday, June 12, 2020
#HandsofPorotta
Friday, May 29, 2020
Retirement during Lockdown!
Every month end there will be a group of seniors retire from thier service. For them majority of their life time would have been spend in thier office along with colleagues. During every other retirement parties, they would have wished to have such a warm retirement.
But for people who retired on March, April and May, the would be different. The most difficult was for people who retired on March 2020, days before thier day of retirement, lockdown announced and most them was at thier own home and silently completed thier services, without having a chance to visit thier place of work for many years.
The social distancing norms and restrictions to conduct social get togethers, will restrict the retirement parties. I have seen my mom travelling distances to meet and cheer her retired friends on thier day of retirement. Such small joy and happiness will be missing now! Yes, for the good of all!
My heartfelt post retirement wishes to everyone!
